The Word of the Day is Diet

Eating right and working out is critical for a healthier sex life.

What is also critical is a Positive Mental Attitude. You have to believe you are hot and believe you are sexy. A self-confident state of mind is critical for hot sex in the bedroom.

A good sex diet consists of:

Avoiding sugar and sugary snacks;
Reducing your intake of tea, coffee and chocolate;
Increasing nutrient-rich foods like fruits, vegetables, whole wheat and seeds;
Increasing foods rich in arginine like fish, turkey, chicken beans tofu, nuts and seeds
Eating tuna, mackerel or salmon
Eating seeds and nuts ~ pumpkin, sunflower and sesame

Minimizing your intake of fried and processed foods and fat from meat and dairy.

Although it may seem convenient to go to McDonald's for an Egg McMuffin and a chocolate milk while on your way to your incall, it is truly wrecking havoc on your zest for hot sex.

~The Word of the Day is Professionalism

I read my friend, Ciara's blog today.

I've blogged many times about being busy, but it took Ciara's usual brilliant prose to make it understandable.

When I see cattiness on the various message boards or gossip mongers I just shake my head. How do these women have TIME for this type of behavior?

Shopping, manicures, pedicures, hair appointments, tanning, working out and dieting take up a HUGE amount of time.

Then you add the other 93 things on your "to-do list" ~ that is an extremely busy day.

The type of provider Ciara describes is a consummate professional who gives 110% to the industry she is in and the to career she has chosen.

She loves what she does and has dedicated herself to her profession as a pleasure provider.

From time-to-time, I hear about providers who engage in gossip or try to undermine another provider's integrity, or who are just downright nasty to another provider. I just shake my head and laugh.
A provider who has time to do such things surely is not dedicated to her profession as a pleasure provider.

Those same providers then wonder why they are not busy.....well....Why would a hobbyist want to see a woman who has not immersed herself into giving pleasure to him???

~The Word of the Day is Herb

Not THAT kind of herb people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Since the beginning of time, there has been the constant search for ways to stimulate sexual activities.

With renewed interest in herbs towards the end of the 20th Century, herbs came to the forefront.

Some think that because herbs are natural, they are the Holy Grail. However, there are side effects and adverse reactions, so care should be taken.

Bayberry ~ A fruit used by women for sexual enhancement. This fruit has the ability to increase blood flow and capillary dilation in the mucus membranes of the vagina.

Catuaba ~ Both men and women in South America use this herb for stimulating the central nervous system. This herb has the unique ability to control the sexual responses of the consumer.

Cayenne ~ This fruit makes sexual organs stronger and efficient.

Cuscuta ~ Cuscuta seeds stimulate or normalize that part of the body which controls the sexual organs. The consumption of these seeds will control premature ejaculation.

Ginseng ~ Ginseng stimulates the sperm production. This herb promotes stronger arousal, better genital functions and stronger physical feelings.

Epidemium (Horny Goat Weed) ~ This herb promotes stronger genital feelings. It also promotes fertility through increased sperm production. It affects the central nervous system and increases sexual desires.

Peppermint ~ Peppermint leaves stimulate the lubrication in the genital system. Lubrication enhances the pleasure during sexual intercourse.

Herbs are a wonderful alternative to prescriptions ~ do your homework and make sure they are safe.

The World of the day is Climate Control

I got up really early on Sunday and took the dogs to the park. An hour later it started raining. A couple hours later it was sleeting, then a couple hours later it was snowing.

I can't even remember the last time it snowed in April.

Below is another picture of Diesel. Capone is a HUGE fan of the camera. Diesel, like his mommy, hates having his picture taken.

The Word of the Day is Chew Toy

I leave the house. I shut ALL OF MY CLOSET DOORS.

I come home to find my closet door open and in the middle of the living room my NEW Designer Shoes.

I also find a pair of my underwear, buried under my Puggle's bed. I won't go into the condition of the underwear out of respect for those reading this.




I think my dogs invite a friend over, a friend with THUMBS, to facilitate the opening of my closet doors.

I just can't believe this!!!!!!!!!!! I mean they have an unlimited supply of bones. WHY do they choose my designer shoes.